Do You Want To Stop Your Divorce and Save Your Marriage?

Do you want to stop your divorce and save your marriage? If you are asking yourself this question then hope is still there to overcome the relationships difficulties. The first thing to do, as hard as it will be, is to put your emotions aside. If you can truly do that then some real and rational decisions can be made.

Remember you are hurt. You may feel betrayed and used. You are sure that there are good reasons you want to end this relationship. But is there? I don't know there may be there is, but only you can tell for sure.

It is very possible that outside influences have exaggerated your true feelings and are leading you to think you would be better off out of the marriage. Maybe, if you put your emotions aside, you will start to realize that you don't want to end your marriage, but you don't know where to start on the road to recovery.

Here is an idea. Go back to the beginning. You had a reason you loved your spouse. Has that changed? Probably not, but other influences have just caused you to forget. Maybe you need to get your head on straight. That sounds a little cruel but a break up is a serious life changing event and sometimes you have to take a tough look at your own reasons. Try to open this line of thought with your spouse. It may be difficult, but communication is key. An open line of communication and a good hard look at the good times, not just the bad, that you shared will go a long way to healing your heart.

I am not implying the problem is all yours because as the old saying "it takes two". Be honest with yourself but so does you other half. Just be honest and good to each other and you will be just fine. Don't let your emotions run your thinking, try to look at the facts that have lead up to your present situation and the reasons for them.

I hope you get the most helpful answers for you and your spouse. No one wants a bad break up. It just hurts too many people in and around the couples involved. Seek the advice of experts and take the advice of loved ones and friends with a "grain of salt" Read more in-depth information concerning the subject of "Saving The Marriage", from experts, with "The Magic of Making Up".