Save Your Marriage Give It C.P.R.

Do you find yourself feeling that your marriage is on the brink of dying? That what was once very lively is now suffering from a lack of attention? There is just something missing. It is a feeling that you remember from before tying the knot that is just not there anymore.

Before you get married life is exciting. You cannot wait to see each other. Every day you dream of a life full of truth, love, and all that is happy! But At some point, nearly every relationship is going to reach a point where the fire goes out. When you get married, times can start to change. Suddenly you have to work together and deal your new responsibilities. As those responsibilities present themselves they can put a burden on a relationship. You will start to realize that love is just not enough to save your marriage. Before your relationship truly dies try something I read about a while ago and used with great success. Save your marriage get it C.P.R. Lets take a look at what C.P.R. is for the marriage.

The first thing is getting Counseling. So many couples do not understand or even know what marriage counseling is all about. Think about it. How much do you actually know about marriage counseling and the part it can play in how to save your marriage? Here is some of how it works.

You will spend some time, in private, with a professional counselor and several other couples that are interested in saving their relationships. You will all learn, with the guidance of the counselor, how to communicate with your spouse. In this way you will be able to better understand each other. Also,in this way you can help eliminate the idea that everything your spouse says is an attack. Face it you have experienced this haven't you?

Now what about the (P)? Let's get Perspective! You have to be shown a true perspective of what is happening in your relationship. A professional counselor will help you greatly with this by showing you how to consider things from other perspectives. This could be huge in your quest to save your marriage.

Now let's talk about the (R). You have gone to the extent of getting counseling and gained some perspective on what your situation now it's time to act on all the information and ideas you have gathered. Resolve to act now. Remember if you don't act and act now everything you have done to save your marriage up to this point will be for nothing.

Now you know how to save your marriage with C.P.R. so all that is left for you to do is Do It.

I hope you get the most helpful answers for you and your spouse. No one wants a bad break up. It just hurts too many people in and around the couples involved. Seek the advice of experts and take the advice of loved ones and friends with a "grain of salt" Read more in-depth advice on the subject of "Saving Your Marriage", from experts, with "The Magic of Making up".